Healthy Boundaries · Age 13–17yrs

    Sex, Relationships & Consent Speaker for Schools

    Sex & Relationships

    Bringing in a sex, relationships and consent speaker for schools works best when the tone is right. With Years 8–12 Jonny keeps it age-appropriate and unawkward: boundaries, consent, respect, pressure from peers and screens, and what a healthy relationship actually looks like when things get hard. Schools often pair it with a parent evening so families keep the conversation going at home. More on Jonny as a motivational speaker for schools.

    Sex & Relationships presentation
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    50-90min Presentations
    Unlimited Students per Talk

    Who it's for

    Year levels
    Years 8–12 (ages 13–17)
    Session length
    50-90 min, full-day options
    Formats
    Year-level sessions · Assembly · Parent night

    What students walk away with

    Healthy vs Unhealthy

    Clear signs of a relationship that lifts you up versus one that pulls you down.

    Setting Boundaries

    How to say what you mean, kindly and confidently.

    Peer Pressure

    Handling the moments when everyone else seems to be doing something else.

    Coping with Break-ups

    Tools for the emotional side no one prepares you for.

    The presentation

    Sex, Relationships & Safe Choices

    This honest and relatable presentation explores sex, relationships, consent, emotional wellbeing, communication, and resilience — helping students navigate these areas with maturity and respect.

    Reality Check

    Less than 50% of Year 12 students have had sex — it's completely normal if you haven't. Media & peer perspective is usually a lot higher and often the very reason people have sex too early.

    Influences on Attitudes

    Family, friends, media, and pornography shape distorted views about sex and love.

    Reasons for Sex

    Often peer pressure, alcohol, and social expectations — not love or readiness.

    Physical Protection

    Condoms are 96–98% effective but only protect physical health — not emotional, mental, or legal consequences.

    Consent and Legal Responsibilities

    Sex must be consensual, sober, and between individuals aged 16+. Sexting laws and mutual respect are emphasised.

    Realistic Expectations About Sex

    Sex can be amazing but can also be awkward, average, or painful — especially if expectations are based on media myths.

    Sex ≠ Love

    Real love is about acceptance, respect, and commitment — not just physical attraction.

    Building Healthy Relationships

    Strong communication, emotional maturity, shared values, and respect are the foundations of meaningful relationships.

    Boundaries and Communication

    Emphasises setting clear emotional, social, spiritual, and physical boundaries to protect wellbeing.

    Breakups and Emotional Resilience

    How to deal with rejection, grief, and moving forward healthily after relationships end.

    Australian Curriculum

    Curriculum alignment

    This presentation is tailored to the audience depending on age & outcomes and follows the Australian curriculum according to Educational Analysis and Consulting.

    Years 9–10
    • ACPPS073 — Examine factors that shape identities.
    • ACPPS074 — Investigate how relationships influence identities.
    • ACPPS075 — Investigate strategies for respectful relationships.
    • ACPPS076 — Critique behaviours influencing health outcomes.
    • ACPPS089 — Evaluate strategies to manage sexual health risks.
    • ACPPS090 — Propose strategies for safety and consent in relationships.
    • ACPPS091 — Plan help-seeking strategies for risky situations.
    • ACPPS092 — Evaluate how attitudes and behaviours influence wellbeing.
    • ACPPS093 — Evaluate health information and media influence.
    Years 11–12
    • ACPPS110 — Analyse factors influencing respect and inclusion.
    • ACPPS111 — Investigate strategies for safety, consent, and healthy relationships.
    • ACPPS112 — Evaluate how social and emotional skills influence respectful relationships.
    • ACPPS113 — Critique behaviours and contextual factors impacting health and relationships.
    Schools love it

    What educators say

    "
    Over 97% said they would like the opportunity to attend more classes like Jonny's.
    Sharleen Mulawin
    Head Teacher, Aurora College
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    "
    Many parents said they felt like they were there during your presentation — the students recited everything you said from stage at home!
    Jessica Fowles
    Chaplain, Mueller College
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    "
    Hit the nail on the head. Totally in line with the curriculum. Would recommend him to anyone in Australia, New Zealand, worldwide. Fantastic!
    Mrs G
    Head Counsellor, St Patricks
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    Frequently asked questions

    Years 8–12. For Years 5–7 the puberty and growing-up session is the age-appropriate option.

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